But I would be the world's worst advice person if I didn't point out the problems here (and I know you said not to, but I'm all the way over here on the other side of the internet and you can't stop me).Pendleton would barge into my office and fire me, out of a cannon.
Better still, you'll be seeing them during the day, rather than just propping up a bar with them in the evening. Work together during the day, pop out for a quick drink after work, Bob's your uncle. Everything is in order, from stress-busting massage at the desk to on-site counselling, so why not pick a mate there too? Hinting that you would like to take things further but never being specific can make the whole relationship uncomfortable, especially if it's a boss/employee situation.
He sees you both as an attractive woman and a girl he had been recently responsible for.
He doesn't want to pursue something that could very easily end his career.
IT HAS been estimated that up to half of us meet our future partners through or at work, which makes it a significant venue for budding romance.
There are obvious plus points to meeting your partner at work: 1.