The first one broke their hearts, and I was terrified to ever introduce another one to them.
As a child of divorce, I think this is the most important thing you should be asking.
A lot of it comes down to how the divorce went down, says licensed clinical psychologist Ramani Durvasula, Ph.
“You want to suss out that he is not still pining for his old life,” Durvasula says.
“Some may not want to get married again after experiencing it once,” she says.
It’s important to determine where your guy stands on the issue, and how it aligns with where you see your future going.
If your guy no longer thinks that two people can be in a loving, committed relationship, that’s a red flag.
According to Stanford University research, 70 percent of divorces are initiated by women.