But hurting or hitting another adult, teenager, or child is wrong. Hitting people never makes problems go way, and someone can get seriously hurt or even die.If your father or your mothers partner uses violence, they are choosing this behavior to try to control things because they think they have a right to do so. You can choose other ways to solve problems and negotiate in your relationships.
Do you change your behavior to try to keep him happy?
I guess he gets jealous because he loves me so much. Its normal to feel jealous now and then, but we cant keep someone from having other friends.
No one has the right to control whom we see or whom we choose as friends.
The following stories show some warning signs that a boyfriend may get more controlling or violent. One time we got into a fight because he saw me sitting with another guy in the cafeteria.
I have a right to speak my mind, even if it means disagreeing with my partner. I have a right to refuse to do anything that makes me feel uncomfortable. Some behaviors that show the possibility that a dating partner may eventually become physically violence may include extreme jealousy, blaming others for all problems, never being able to admit to wrongdoing, cruelty to animals, and holding rigid beliefs about sex roles for men and women. I tell him theyre just friends, but he says theyre all after me.